It’s inevitable that sometime during your cheerleading career, you will meet another cheerleader who is more talented, more agile, and generally more competent at cheerleading than you are.
What do you do when this happens to you? How you manage this situation can result in your feeling fine or feeling miserable.
For example, if you say to yourself, “I’ll never be that good…I’ll never be able to do what she does…” then you will likely feel discouraged. But notice that you are the one who is discouraging you! No one else is telling you you’ll never be that good.
The way you think affects the way you feel and you have control over the way you think!
Here’s another option. What if you were to say to yourself, “Wow! She (or he) is really good. I wonder how she does it? What can I learn from observing him?” This line of thinking is constructive and is likely to result in your feeling energized, not defeated.
So, try it! Next time you see an exceptional talent, instead of focusing on you and what you may lack (real or imagined), focus on the other person and observe with the goal of learning from that person.