This past weekend I was in Halifax, Nova Scotia where I taught some classes at Cheer Expo. It was fun to meet the cheerleaders, the coaches, the judges, and the other instructors.
One of the classes I was scheduled to teach was on Mental Toughness and my travel experience provided a personal lesson for me on that very topic. Here is what happened – what I refer to as my tutorial on the mental game of flying – in an airplane that is.
I had to get up at 3:30 in the morning on Friday in order to catch a 6 am flight from Boston to New York (JFK airport). Then I had to leave that terminal, walk about a mile and go to a different terminal where I had to go through security again. So far, so good – I even got a walk in!
The flight from New York was direct to Halifax however when we arrived in the skies above Halifax, we were told the weather had affected visibility so we would have to circle for a while until it cleared up. Well, it didn’t clear up and the plane was running out of fuel so we had to fly to another city to refuel. Guess where we ended up? Boston! (Which is closer than New York.)
Once in Boston we refueled but we were not allowed to leave the plane. We were then told the plane would NOT return to Halifax but instead go back to New York! Of course by the time we got to New York (around 4:30 pm) there were no more flights out to Halifax that day. We were re-booked for the next day and told we were on our own in terms of getting a hotel and meals.
I was asked if I wanted to return to Boston for the night and leave the next morning on a direct flight to Halifax. I agreed. The flight to Boston was leaving at 6:30 pm but it was at New York’s other airport – La Guardia! So I had to take a cab and pray that I would get there in time to make the shuttle back to Boston. I did make it and met a very nice cab driver in the process. My confused husband graciously picked me up at the airport and took me home where I essentially fell asleep while I ate supper. The next morning I flew out of Boston again – but this time arrived in Halifax on schedule.
Now, what does this have to do with mental toughness? Well, mental toughness has to do with maintaining a positive attitude in the face of discomfort or adversity. At any time during my adventure, I could have whined and griped or bemoaned my fate or fretted about the situation. When I found myself beginning to go there, I reminded myself that this was out of my control and a key tenet of mental toughness is – control the controllables! The only thing I could control was my attitude so I proceeded to view the experience as an interesting adventure and used the time to read and listen to my i-pod.
For cheerleading, there is so much that is out of your control – especially at a competition! Still, the most important elements are under your control: your poise, your attitude, your desire to perform well, and your commitment to your mental game.
Oh – my return flight was delayed due to weather…but that’s another story!